A world of total solitary….. i need that badly

Recently, i blogged in my frenster account about an indian woman’s outraged video clipped that has been the talk of the town. Well it has sparked two particular frens of mine to write compositions about it in my comments column. *winks* It was real long. I expected small comments on it but those two comments came as a surprise to me. I have to say, thier arguments were well said from both point of views. Haha, well well, it was fun reading it. I spoke about this to mu hubby and he was saying "You ppl who blog have so much of free time ah!!!" My sis even messaged me personally to say that what i had done was very wrong. Well, what i would to say are a few things,

1) What i blog is my interest, what i feel like writting. I guess i dun need to get anybody’s approval on my writtings. Its my own risk i take to blog. I had a few ppl telling me i shouldnt have done this and that. What they should understand is nobody has the rights to tell anyone on what they should blog and what they shouldnt.

2) I asked many ppl including my Angels sisters and Umbro Devils brother about my entry on the blog. So far a few of my frens came back to me. Thier views on my blog were different but all of them had one thing common to tell.

"Its your blog and u hv d right to write ever u wan there… n they haved the rights to post thier comments there" They cannot be telling u what to write n not to write… its ur views which u r posting n not some story telling based on a fixed title…

This is jus from one person i spoke to. There were many comments from many others but i’m jus too lazy to write.

Well, all i can say is that what i blogged much better of than the ones that i’ve researched and read!!!

Recently, you guys must have heard about the video clip thingy about a fellow Indian involved in it. Well, i blogged about it and i received many comments on it. I received many comments on it. When i read Rekha’s comments, i wanted to say a few things about it. First of all, i was more inspired to write about that blog due to the reason that she is bringing shame to the Indian community and not because I’m very ‘Kaypo’ about her personal issues!!! Whatever she wants to do in her personal life is her damned farking problem. Who she sleeps with and gives blow job is her damned issues. But pls keep it as a personal stuffs, not publishing it to the public like this. I dun give damn how this video clip got to the public because she should have thought about it before getting down to do it!!! If she had her own kid doing that, i dun think she would be feeling proud about this!!!! Even a prostitute wouldn’t wanna have herself videoed and be sent around to everyone!!! Is this what our Indian culture taught us all? Is this what our parents taught us to do? Being educated doesn’t only means for good job and certificates, but also to have some sense of good morales!!! Guess, her education din give her that…. This is how i feel and i feel that being an Indian, she should be told off!!!

That was what the video’s tittle was!!! When i opened it, OH MY GOD…. It was this well known artiste from Vasantham central facing me, half-naked, say things that can barely be heard. From the way she was mumbling and her appearance, i can say only one thing. And that is she’s being videoed while having sex…. Well, initially, i didn’t want to believe that its her… I kept asking my friends many times whether its really her or some impostor is pulling our legs. But, nope!!! Its def her. No doubts about that. I mean, i know this kinda stuffs been happening lately and it was even published in the papers last year. But i didn’t expect our own race to be involved in this shameful thing. We are considered to be the most smallest group in this city. Whatever we do, it will def be known to others very soon. And having done such a thing and now that its being publicized, i wonder if the lady knows anything about this and if she does, i wonder how she’s going to face her family and friends. I’ve nothing against her at all. In fact, i do like her performances. But to be involved in such activities, its unspeakable. Let your private life to be yours to see. Why wanna publish it. We are a small community. Its in our hands to bring our community good name into the society and being an artiste, its expected out of you more than the others. An artiste is somehow the mirror reflection of our culture, community and such. How will her family and friends feel now? Have she thought about all that. No excuse can be acceptable for this. I’m very much ashame of what i saw. This blog was inspired by my friend who asked me about this. I did not share this video to anyone cos i find it embarrassing. But when my friend told me about she knowing this and that she received this thru email, i guess almost everyone of us will know. I hope this would be very last to happen in our society and also among other races. Its not nice at all to be seeing this video clips because one day we’re all going to be parents. What will it be then when maybe one of our children’s video is being circulated? How will we feel as parent of that child? I pray to God that our youngsters mindset will change and they will be more aware of their doings.